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So if a girl or a boy, for that matter looks good, tell them so. If you like their taste in books, tell them so. If they do really well at school, tell them so.
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If a 15 year old dresses well; fine, acknowledge it, good for her, she probably had some say in the matter. Hi Katie, I thought this article was very good and it really makes me think about what we admire in little girls, I think we need to have a balance in how much emphasis we put on how they look.
This is great and spot on. But certainly by the time I was 12 I was worried I was fat. Maybe you could gently guide the adult to a new way to interact with any child, really, by asking your girls to tell the person what their reading now or about a subject that interests your girls.
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My sister-in-law shared an important thought with me when our daughters, who are only 6 months apart, were very young. So I have tried to emphasize that fixing their hair etc.
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